You don’t feel good about yourself
Any relationship you have is meant to bring happiness in your life and not to make you feel uncomfortable. A person in a good relationship usually has a positive self esteem. If your boyfriend makes you feel insecure and exacerbates yourself doubts, maybe you should think twice before wasting your precious time with him. If most of the time you’re spending together is stressful or argumentative, move on and look for someone who really deserves you.
He tries to keep you away from family and friends
A man who tries to isolate you from the ones you love might have an abusive personality. Often he will try to explain his acts as signs of his love and you may be flattered at first; as time goes on, his behaviour will become more severe you might find yourself as being controlled and manipulated. With time, you may not be allowed to make personal decisions and he will force you to ask for permission to leave the house.
You can’t see yourself with him 10 years down the road.
Usually when you love someone and you know that he’s the one, you make future plans and imagine that you’re going to spend the rest of your life next to him. If you can’t see yourself with someone down the road, most times, you are in a bad relationship. However, this rule doesn’t apply if you met the guy recently. You must wait to get to know him in order to make a decision.
He is possessive.
If he tells you what you can and can’t do, wear, or what kind of friends you can have, it time to say bye bye. If he is trying to control you, he’s not for you.
Your personalities are too different
Many people get along even when they have different personalities and different ways of thinking. However, personalities clash to the point of making a relationship impossible. If you’re partner likes to party and have fun day and night, while you’re a very relaxed person who doesn’t like to go out too often, you might not succeed as a couple. Of course, he might encourage you to have fun more often, while you can make him stay home from time to time, but this depends only on how flexible you both are.